Change the way you think about it....

People may say that some people are dumb and may not make it it anywhere. I thought the same way. As soon as people started putting that in my head it stuck. Those past memories and those moments when people fail miserable. Some people make it no where and I tended to think so. I thought about all these cruel things people said to one another and it puzzled me. Why? Because sometimes people say mean things to tear people down and those words are what gives some people confidence. Some people use those words in a negative way and I just don't see it. Why should someone take it differently and others take it harder than others. I understood why three years ago. I sat back and looked at how these negative words brought me down and how I let it. I once read, "If there is something you don't like, change it. If you can't change it, change the way you think about it." It made complete since. The way I take it is make those words of bitterness to lies. Change the way they see it or prove that the mean people are wrong in a descries way. Yes, I am a teen mom at the age of fifteen and I did not do so well until that point in my life. But I changed the way I thought about things and the way I acted. I graduated this year from high school with a principals award and Honor roll. It was awesome. I am going off to college now because of the way people called me fat, a whore, and stupid all my life. I did it to prove them wrong that I can change the way I am. I could be what I want to be. Regardless what people say,I know I am doing good and I know my flaws. If only people taught themselves how to change the negative to the positive...But some are in the unknown. Love yourselves like others love you. If they really love you...your doing well. If they don't, fix that something if you want that love? If you don't care if people love you or not, you will one day. And if you don't mind and you want to do/be what you want to be, that is one you if you want to live that way. Think differently. Don't let words harm you. It will change your point of view on life and the way you love.